At Vietnam War Memorial, Grief, Anger and a Sense of Finally Moving On
On the 50th anniversary of the fall of Saigon, visitors to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial expressed enduring grief and anger, yet many found a sense of closure. Despite the significant historical milestone, few visitors were aware of the anniversary, attending instead as part of long-planned trips. Individuals like Dan Creed and Dan Moore, both Vietnam veterans, reflected on how their perspectives have evolved over time, with Moore finding peace after decades of turmoil. Tran Van Ly, a former South Vietnamese officer, noted positive changes in Vietnam, while Carolyn Watson, who lost her father in the war, visited the memorial for the first time, feeling both sadness and gratitude. The memorial serves as a poignant reminder of personal and collective losses, as well as the complex legacies of the Vietnam War for those who lived through it and future generations alike.
Dan Creed, a Vietnam War veteran and National Park Service volunteer, reflected on his changed perspectives over time, now valuing the success and happiness of his children over his wartime achievements.
The Vietnam War, once central to American cultural discourse, seems to have faded in significance, as evidenced by the lack of awareness among visitors to the memorial on the anniversary of Saigon's fall.
Dan Moore, another veteran, recounted his long-held anger about the war but expressed a newfound peace after decades of wrestling with the memories and futility of the conflict.
Tim O’Brien, author of 'The Things They Carried,' expressed regret over his decision to serve in Vietnam, a sentiment that has grown stronger with age, contrasting with his initial acceptance of military duty.
Tran Van Ly, a former South Vietnamese Army officer, acknowledged the improved conditions in Vietnam and softened his views slightly, though he remains opposed to the communist regime.
Carolyn Watson, who lost her father in Vietnam, visited the memorial for the first time, feeling a mix of enduring sadness and gratitude for the support her family received after his death.
The memorial continues to draw diverse visitors, including school groups and veterans, highlighting the personal and historical significance it holds for different generations, even as the war's immediate impact recedes into history.