Dylan O'Brien's Sibling Says They Haven't Spoken in Over a Year, Despite Recent Interview Comments
Despite appearing supportive of his trans sibling in a recent interview, Dylan O'Brien has faced criticism from Julz O'Brien for their lack of communication over the past year. Julz, who identifies as trans masc and uses he/they pronouns, expressed frustration over not being contacted by Dylan during significant personal events, such as top surgery and a recent birthday. Julz also highlighted that media coverage has failed to accurately represent him and has omitted his input. The comments sparked further discussion online, with some pointing to allegations about Dylan's girlfriend's alleged negative views on diversity. This public exchange has raised questions about authenticity and the complexities of familial relationships in the public eye.
Dylan O'Brien expressed his gratitude for the diverse perspectives brought into his life by his queer and trans sibling, Julz, during an interview about his involvement in the queer drama Ponyboi.
Julz O'Brien, who identifies as trans masc and prefers he/they pronouns, criticized media coverage for not consulting him directly or tagging him in articles discussing his identity and experiences.
Julz revealed on Instagram that Dylan has not reached out in over a year, even during significant personal milestones like top surgery and a recent birthday, leading to feelings of neglect and misrepresentation.
The conversation continued online, with commenters raising additional concerns about Dylan's girlfriend's alleged homophobic and racist attitudes, complicating the narrative around his public support for LGBTQ+ issues.
This situation highlights the challenges of maintaining personal relationships and authenticity when public personas and media narratives intersect, particularly in the context of LGBTQ+ advocacy.

Dylan O’Brien’s sibling is speaking out.
In an interview with Vulture, the 33-year-old Teen Wolf alum explained the importance of being involved in the upcoming queer drama Ponyboi as an ally, and addressed his trans sibling.
“I have a trans, nonbinary sibling and I know people in my personal life as well who are queer, and I am so grateful for how much it deepens my experience in this world,” he said.
Now, Julz O’Brien is setting the record straight.
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In response to a Gay Times article that covered the quote, Julz commented on their Instagram.
“Kinda funny that this article didn’t ask me a single thing about myself? It’s about me and uses my photo. I’m not even tagged,” they wrote.
“I’m actually trans masc and go by he/they pronouns 🫶🏼😌,” he added.
One commenter wrote: That’s cool he supports his sibling but we’re not going to put aside his girlfriend from what I’ve heard from every Dylan O’Brien fan she’s homo phobic rac ist and what else I don’t know yet.”
“He also hasn’t spoken to me in over a year. He didn’t check in when I had top surgery. He didn’t even wish me a happy bday last week! But glad I could deepen his experience in this world and make the world love him that much more 😏,” Julz responded.
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